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writes:Hi, i'm sixteen and as many people have said on this website, I am in love with my teacher. Well, former teacher now, he's going away to become principal at another school...which of course,tears into my heart everytime i say that, or hear it. I know everyone always says, "Oh, you're just having teenage hormones and you'll soon forget all about him and move on" But i really don't see how i can. I feel so strongly for him, i don't know how i'm ever going to get over him. We had this weird thing... we hardly talked to eachother..but it was constant staring and well...he lives on the same street as me, and i often see him drving by looking out his window towards my house..i've been outside a couple of times when this has happened.. i catch him staring at me a lot.. and whenever i would run into him in the hallway, we would both look at eachother and hold it, until one of us looked away, sometimes he would smile, other times he just looked embarrassed, or surprised, his eyes always really big, and his eyebrows would be raised, i dont know if that means anything but that's just how he would look sometimes I just need advice and help on how to go about getting over him, i can't stop thinking about him, he's all i think about.. i get so depressed because i know i will never see him again. he's moving soon...please, advice anybody?
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reader, anonymous, writes (30 June 2009): I know how you feel. I had the same feeling for one of my old teachers. I miss him terribly.. he also had to go to another school and teach. but he doen not live on the saem street as me. Good luck.
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reader, anonymous, writes (14 June 2009): I can understand how you feel - one of my tutors is actually moving away soon and I'm gonna miss him a lot as he is like my brother to me. I take it he is still going to live in the same street as you? Why do you not catch him one break or lunchtime (or whenever is appropriate) and thank him for all his help and ask him if he would mind keeping in touch? I'm sure he wouldn't mind and you could always pop a christmas card through the door at xmas time at the very least. Good luck- you'll know what to do!!!
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reader, holikdad +, writes (8 June 2009):
Wait till your 18th birthday then pursue him, unless he's married, then leave him alone. You don't want him to loose his good job and financial security no matter how real your feelings are.
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reader, kitty_3 +, writes (7 June 2009):
 unfortunately, it doesn't seem that there's much that you can do. luckily, since he lives on your street you'll still see him, though. maybe if you ever have one of those fundraisers where you're suppost to sell wrapping paper, etc. (do you have those? i do) you can go to his house.
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reader, aphexinfinite  +, writes (7 June 2009):
 i think its the best thing to happen him moving away you say you see it all the time i am in love with my teacher and its sicken me that some kids your age think it will work and life will go on but it wont the teacher will go to jail and will not pass go and as for them they shall not be the angel all thought out to be. most of the time little girls fall in love with their teacher because he is a manly figure one which you may not get attention from at home ie your father. and as for looking at you sometimes girls can misinterpret how we look at each other more so when its someone we like perhaps he was suprised you were staring at him and raised his eyebrows thinking wtf? perhaps he likes your house and you have just been their. you just have to think that it would never work and you both would be in bad situations if it did and life would be worse you want to be happy be happy knowing he is happy and not going to jail for something that would be bad. i dont mean to sound mean at all just trying to tell you how it is, is all :|. just do things that kids your age is doing and not lusting after a teacher which is impossible to work out. try new hobbies and talk more to your friends go shopping or horse ridding good luck aphex
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