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writes:I met this guy about 9 months ago, and from the beginning he told me he was still in love with his ex, and hoped they would be back together someday, at that time they had been broken up for a little over a year. We decided to be friends, and became very close. We even started a sexual relationship (no problems in that area). As time went on, we became closer and closer, kinda stepped into a bf/gf role. The things we did for each other, would be considered things boyfriends and girlfriends did for each other. We travlled together, we met each others families (his family likes me, and mine likes him). People started to recognize the "chemistry" between us. In February, I got a chance to meet this ex, by accident. She didn't seem interested at all (now that's my opinion). Things between us still were going very well. We started spending more and more time together. We showed public displays of affection, I took care alot of his business, that he didn't have time to do for himself, and all this became routine, I guess. All of a sudden out of the blue, the ex started calling. Now, they are back together, and are moving in with each other, after less than a week. After the break-up, we still communicate, he even sent me a text 2 days ago, saying he loves me...yeah, right. My question is:Do I just suffer through a broken heart, I really do love him, and I miss what we had, and just let him go?or Is there a chance for us?Thanks in advance
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reader, dearkelja +, writes (7 June 2009):
 Let him go. In my opinion yes he does love you but he loves her more. You were a placeholder for her. He didn't intend on it and maybe if she never came around his feelings for you would have grown and he could have forgotten her but now you know. He made his choice.
I'm so sorry you had to go through this. But it'll hurt less in the long run if you just make a clean break and consider this a learning experience.
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