I like him a lot, he doesn't want sex or a relationship with me, what do I do now?

A female age 36-40, anonymous writes:

i have been seeing this guy that i like a lot and he is not ready for a relationship so his just having his fun. just when i was ready to have sex with him And he refused me and said "no" he doesn't know why but he just cant do it with me because i am a nice girl and he doesn't want to hurt me...he also said i should do it with someone thats my boyfriend and that i will thank him later..then he said that this has never happened to him before and that he needed to leave and think things out. what do i do?

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