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Is moving back a mistake?

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Question - (7 June 2009) 0 Answers - (Newest, )
A female Colombia age 36-40, anonymous writes:

I am 21 and met this guy who was visiting my country over a year and a 1/2 ago. I went to his country and we lived together for about 1 year and I went back to my country about 6 months ago. About 2 months after I went back, he cursed me one night on the phone and told me he was seeing someone else for the last month. He apologised after and we agreed to get back together because we have mutual goals.

A friend of mine says that he is still close friends with the girl and they spend a lot of time together. He also overheard a conversation where he said that he feel obligated to me and that he thought he was once infatuated with me but now when he kisses me he feels nothing. I am coming back to his country to be with him and I asked him if he is in love with me and he said that was a difficult question and then said yes after a few minutes.

He told the girl he was seeing and is still close friends with ( I know this for a fact) that he loves her dearly but he has to do the right thing because he made a promise to me and we have common goals. I am wondering if moving back is a mistake because he may not really want to be with me just feeling guilty...

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