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writes:I've been going out with my boyfriend for a year now. We are both in love with each other and are very happy. Everything is perfect, i trust him 100% and we never stop each other from going out with friends or tie each other down, we never get jealous or anything and up to now we have never had an argument. Today my boyfriend has gone on holiday with about 15 of his friends to magaluf. Two weeks of constant drinking and clubbing. Im going to miss him loads. However i can't help feeling worried as everyone who knows he's going have all said something along the lines of ' oooh tell him he will have to behave himself'.... He's a really attractive guy, tall, dark, gorgeous eyes, everything a girl could want, and i feel so lucky to be his girlfriend. Trust has never been a problem before, i completely trust him when he goes out drinking with his friends but now they are going to another country, and will be completely wasted most of the two week, i just know girls are going to throw themselves at him, and i just don't know if he would turn them away or cheat on me. Im making myself sick with worry. Some of his friends are womanizers and some have girlfriends. Last year when he went we weren't together ( i didnt know him then) and from what i heard from a girl who knows him, she said he was like a rampant rabbit. I never brought this up with him or anything because that was in the past. Before he left we were laid in bed holding each other and he told me he loved me, and he will miss me loads, do you think im just being paranoid thinking the worse of him when he's never done anything in the whole year we've been together to doubt him?
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reader, Emilysanswers +, writes (7 June 2009):
Yep you are being paranoid.
You say you trust him, but it's easy to say you trust someone when they are stood next to you. When they are in a different country you discover if you really do trust them or not.
If you really think he is capable of cheating on you then just accept that if he wants to, it's going to happen.
If you really do trust him then accept that it will not happen and get on with your day.
What you should be doing is going out and having fun with your mates while he is away. Fill your time and distract yourself. What can you do with these 2 weeks that you can't do when he is around?
Get a big book from the library, get all your clothes out and lay them around the house and go on an ebay selling spree. Do something with your time so you are not sat thinking about this.
Good Luck!! xx
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