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36-40,
*carlettxx
writes:For the last six weeks I was seeing a guy who had a girlfriend (some of you may have read my previous questions) and now I know how much of a mistake it was but unfortunately I really liked him and kept seeing him. He told me he wanted to break up with her even when we were just simply friends but the last time I went out with him he said he was 'torn between the both of us' but he was crazy about me...I stayed with him Tuesday night, wasn't for the first time and then when I came home Wednesday after a few hours I sent him a sweet text. Never heard anything back which is not unusual. The next day I sent another hi, how are you type message. Still nothing... Haven't heard anything since and I'm not bothering to chase after him since he has the girlfriend. I know it's not right. Now we're working together on Friday and I don't know how to act or what to say. I'm so angry and hurt and I completely understand how foolish and naive I was but I have no idea why he'd blank me like this and not even have the decency to give me a simple text explaining because we get along so well. I just don't know what to do... :( Please help...
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reader, mimisoph3  +, writes (8 June 2009):
 he has the right to blankk u out.i mean he has a girlfriend and to him u just seemed like the other extra piece of cake on the side.u wanted him so much u were willing to ruin the relationship wit him gf and him.but dont blame urself its his fault he couldnt decide and he kept seeing u knowing that he had a girlfriend.i suggest when u see him act normal if he looks at u look back and act normal i know its going to kill u inside but thats better then going up to him and becoming a maniace. i also thing that if he comes up to u and starts talking or signing body language like he wants to talk but doesnt know how to start.so if he comes up and talks about something just go along wit it and if he talks about the two of u then tell him in a nice way be mature about the situation tell him "look i understand ur in a relationship and i dont want to get between anything so i suggest u delete my number i already deleted urs" also start something like "if u dont want to be friends that i suggest we dont see eachother" i'm sure he will say it eventually because he isnt replying to anything and then act normal and keep ur head in the sky like nothing happened and when u get home cry if u need to. its the most mature way to say it instead of saying heyyy u fag wats up wit u..i'm sure u wont wanna do that good luck tell me how it goes if u want :D i would love to know and if u have any questions feel free the message me privatly
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