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For some reason guys just aren't attracted to me?!

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Question - (7 June 2009) 4 Answers - (Newest, 9 June 2009)
A female United States age 30-35, anonymous writes:

hi there so I'm 16 years old and where i live kids started dating and stuff at around seventh grade. I've never kissed a guy,had a boyfriend, held hands with a guy or anything of that sort. For some reason,guys just arent attracted to me. I went to a party and every single one of my girl friends got asked to dance but me. I'm athletic and strong and a little overweight.

Guys are intimidated by me and call me hurtful things like "dyke". I don't know what is wrong with me. I have some guy friends and I'm funny. I never really get invited anywhere and my two ex best friends ruined most of friendships and tortured me throughout the year. Whenever I find a guy I like it always seems like I'm too late. He is always in a relationship or romance. Please help!

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A female reader, iLuvMusic14 United States +, writes (9 June 2009):

iLuvMusic14 agony auntI'm in the same situation. I'm 14. I don't understand why ethier. So i put a question on here and i got the best answer ever. It siad guys our age are immature. If we wait we will find the perfect guy. The only thing guys are age are looking for is sex. They know which girls will and which won't give it to them. So i feel alot better now. We'll just wait till we get older and find the perfect guy.

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A female reader, anonymous, writes (7 June 2009):

thank you both so much!!! these answers really mean a lot!

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A female reader, anonymous, writes (7 June 2009):

thank you both so much!!! these answers really mean a lot!

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A female reader, aunty United Kingdom +, writes (7 June 2009):

Hi do not worry youare a young girl with all your life in front of you. The right boy will come into your life and you will know instantly he is the right one to commit yourself to. Till then ignore the ignorance of others who call you names i know its hard to do but believe me you are the better person be true to yourself.

Aunty09

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