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writes:Hi I am 21 years old and thinking about moving away.most of my friends here dont really go out anymore and I have never felt so alone. The only thing is I live with my grandparents and mum so I would feel awful just leaving them but I am really unhappy here. I feel like I never get to meet anyone and I am always with couples. I wish to find love. People say im very good looking and they cant understand whats going on. Also I have started my Degree and just finished first year. I actually love the university here, but its just my social life thats lacking. Im really down and dont know what to do about things- is it worth to move away just to meet new people? I have become very negative and thats not like me at all. I used to be a really happy girl and Im scared Im going to turn really bitter if I stay here my whole life.I must admit I do try to go out, but most of my mates would rather be stuck in with their boyfriends which is understandable, but they dont really make the effort..
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reader, anonymous, writes (4 July 2009): This is verified as being by the original poster of the questionyeah you should join a club
smile and get chatting and people will come your way! :)
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reader, anonymous, writes (3 July 2009): I'm actually in the exact same position you are. I JUST turned 21 and my friends would rather play xbox or pc games. Sure, playing is fine.. but every night? I want to meet new people and I can't seem to find the solution anymore. @ Kellyxxx, I go to the gym but frankly I can't find myself starting a convo with someone while I'm working out. I wanted to join a club at my university SO badly last semester, but this upcoming one I will join one no matter what.
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reader, anonymous, writes (9 June 2009): ahh k well i have like 3 more years to go too
i guess we just have to deal with it right:)
y dont u ask your friends to visit u or prolly u can go see them on weekends
u would feel better that ways1
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reader, anonymous, writes (8 June 2009): This is verified as being by the original poster of the questiontis
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and it will be another two years (which IS not that long, considering my 1st year just FLEW in..its insane how time just flies by) =S
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reader, anonymous, writes (8 June 2009): i can totally understand how u feel!like truly i dowhat course are u doin? and how long will it take for u to complete it?
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reader, anonymous, writes (8 June 2009): This is verified as being by the original poster of the questioni feel like I do belong here
but my heart is telling me I need to move on if this doesnt change. i used to have loads of people to go out with when i was in college, but so much has changed now..
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reader, anonymous, writes (7 June 2009): well your in a similar situation as me
i moved away and the people out here suck
i just feel soo lonely
i was a totaly party person i miss my friends too:(
i am here only cuz of the course i am doin
i am planning to give up and go where my heart belongs
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reader, anonymous, writes (7 June 2009): This is verified as being by the original poster of the questionI can't seem to get a job in this town either, ran of bad luck eh? lol and people are often in their own little groups but I guess il never give up trying! Im a really strong person,.. I cant understand why being alone is getting to me so much
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reader, kellyxxx  +, writes (7 June 2009):
 Do you work? If so do you never go out with work collegues? Everywhere you go there will be people who don't want to go out so if you don't want to move away why don't you try to meet new people closer to home? Join a club to do with something you're interested in, go to the gym and meet people there!
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