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writes:I am a fat, balding, bespectacled, virgin, 25 year old guy who is studying and working in a small town in the US. I do think girls sometimes give me looks, and maybe I'm not as ugly as I think myself to be. I honestly don't know.I'm too shy to talk to strange girls anywhere and anyway there are not many girls around my work, home, school.Should I go to nightclubs or bars? Would that give me a better chance or should I try to talk to someone near work, home or school?Any suggestions welcome.
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reader, anonymous, writes (8 June 2009): I agree with Kelly, the gym is a much better place to meet girls. You meet a better quality person and loose weight, a win, win, situation. Not all people at the gym are buff, that is why they are there, to get in better shape.
Make yourself interesting. When you do meet a woman, you have to have something to talk about. Learn some jokes....nothing vulgar or racist! Laughter is a great turn-on. Buy contacts and some new clothes, they will make you feel better about yourself and send the right message to women.
Read self help stuff on the internet....best of luck to you :)
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reader, lotus mama808 +, writes (7 June 2009):
 The father of my 1st child is an older, balding, pretty ugly dude (to be frank), and I am (or was) a young, thin good looking gal when we met. Not all girls are shallow, in fact, the best girls care very little what you look like. I thought my ex was super sexy because he was very smart, was in to the same things I was, and he was so much fun to be around. We lasted a very long time, split because of personal issues, but my point is, girls that know better are out there, and you need to make yourself available to them. What is your favorite hobby? Go out and enjoy it with others, and it may be the best place for you to meet a girl that you click with. Trust me on this one.
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reader, kellyxxx  +, writes (7 June 2009):
 You sound like you have a ngeative opinion of yourself and most girls are attracted to confidence! You need to be confident and you should attract more girls, regardless of location. Also, maybe losing abit of weight would improve the situation (depending on how heavy you are) you could join a gym and meet girls there? X
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