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female
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51-59,
*hippy2
writes:Help! My ex bf of three plus years is seeing someone who is nothing like me and wants to be friends. He was I guess seeing her when I was out of town and my mother was dying. My mom died not even a month ago and this new woman drives 40 min each way to be there with him.He texts me even when she is there but doesnt seem to say he wants to get back together but that he just checks on me.Last night he text me and I had a friend tell me she was there overnight. I dont get it - why is he texting me? My sister in law thinks he wants to get rid of her but wants to make sure he has me back. But I told him I am not coming back.What should I do about the text? Answer politely? Get together with him and tell him I really cant trust him to see him again. Tell him the chances of us ever being friends are none because he cheated lied and takes drugs?Any advice appreciated!
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reader, OzBloke  +, writes (24 September 2009):
I think the answer in this situation is simple. Block his texts. Don't think too much about it.You state that he lied, cheated and takes drugs. I don't wish to start a flame war about drugs, but you clearly don't approve of substance abuse and that is all that matters. Avoid, forget, move on!
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reader, anonymous, writes (8 June 2009): this man will continue to text you just to keep you hanging. he has no intention of dumping his current lover. just as he has no intention of getting back with you. he is giving you false hope and sadly maybe you are clinging to this. you need to make a clean break here so that you move on and heal and open yourself to other available men who won't cheat and mess with your emotions.
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