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female
age
41-50,
anonymous
writes:My ex and I broke up once and then became friends and it went back into a relationship. Stuff happened again I got jealous which was stupid but things were not resolved so then we split up again. It has now been 2 months and he wants to be friends again and I am sure if we are friends it will lead back into a relationship again. My question: I really love this man and was devastated with the last split. I dont think I can handle another reconciliation and a split..should I tell him how I feel upfront or just go with the flow. I know he has fear since he was severly hurt after a 4 yr relationship with an alcoholic. I want to be with him forever but should I just move on. I don't have the strength to go thru this again - this is the first man I truly loved someone but he is very emotional and tends to retreat when upset. I have dated in the past 2 months but I cant move forward into another relationship because I love him.
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reader, mason361  +, writes (7 June 2009):
 I know how you feel, first off. You should stay with him, if you love him you'll be there for him. I'm very emotional too, and my girlfriend hates me. I recently lost my grandmother and ive done so many things to cope with it.
If he's retreating, you need to see whats wrong, and be there for him.
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