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writes: Pls help me anyone. I have broken up with my bf in late april, accepted everything and is willing to move on now. I wrote twice about this break-up before. But something came up lately which makes me confused.For the last two weeks I had started to communicate with him again. The first thing is about his trolley bag he lent me before we broke up. When he contacted me about it, i said I would ask my sister to hand it to him so we won't have too see each other as he said on our break up that he doesn't want to see me anymore. He replied back to say that i can keep the bag if i want to but there's something he must give to me. I replied to him saying i know the bag has sentimental value and so he should really get it back. And he agreed.I began to believe it as a positive sign that atleast he doesn't hate me anymore and that we can atleast be friends. Five days after, I had a fight with my sister. He is the only one who knows about this problem so i started to text him my frustration and he replied back with advises. Then out of the blue he texted to ask if i have any plan in my mind and can i tell him if i have? he usually ask this when he wants to see me after a fight. To this i diverted the topic and went back to talk about my sister to which he did not reply anymore.Two nights ago, I reminded him about the trolley again and repeated that if he finds it uncomfortable to get it, i already arranged for my sister to hand it to him. He just have to get it for just 5 minutes (I don't want him to make this as a reason to communicate with me again). I said to him to forget whatever he has there that he wants to give to me.I never got any replies. I tried to call but he wont answer. I decided i will never ever talk to him again. My question is, why is he like that?[Moderator's note: Related question from the same user: http://www.dearcupid.org/question/he-cheated-but-says-he-loves-me-so.html]
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