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I'm attracted to younger girls and wonder where it will go?

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Question - (7 June 2009) 5 Answers - (Newest, 7 June 2009)
A male New Zealand age 41-50, anonymous writes:

I find myself looking at younger girls from about 8 onwards in a sexual way. This disturbs me. I am 25.

I know that I can't do anything. And feel that I will have the strength to avoid doing anything to a girl.

But I fear that one day I might weaken to my thoughts.

I am fully atractived to older females. Its just I can see some youger girls in a sexual way aswell.

People look at people like this with intent. But I am a nice caring person. I just have a weakness somewhere.

What do you think about it?

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A female reader, anonymous, writes (7 June 2009):

please tell me this is a fake post?

if not, Mr. you have serious problems. remember if you act out your fantasies with children this will be rape. plse get help from a professional. i don't know whether there are any anon tipoffs in your country but people like you should be on a register and red flagged just in case you act and "I might weaken to my thoughts." Delusional people saying "I am a nice caring person" makes me sick in the stomach. i can call you many many things but this will be blocked. i just wish that parents of these young girls do not leave them unattended with you. PLEASE DO NOT HURT ANY CHILD!

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A female reader, TasteofIndia United States +, writes (7 June 2009):

TasteofIndia agony auntGet your nice and caring behind into a psychologists office and nip this sick feeling in the bud!! You don't want to carry on and let this feeling end up getting you in some SERIOUS trouble, and getting an innocent young girl a lifetime of damage and pain. Go immediately!

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A female reader, anonymous, writes (7 June 2009):

*But I fear that one day I might weaken to my thoughts*

If you are really a 'decent, caring' man then you will need counseling. Also you having kids should be out of the question, you may not feel attracted to your own kids but be tempted by their friends.

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A female reader, sammi star United Kingdom +, writes (7 June 2009):

sammi star agony auntYou really need to get some help with this. You know it would be wrong to do anything with a young girl but you're already wondering if you might give into your feelings which is seriously worrying, if you're really as nice a person as you say you are you should seek help now.

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A male reader, ArmyMedic United Kingdom +, writes (7 June 2009):

ArmyMedic agony auntI think you need to seek help right now and if you start getting urges to pursue these feelings Chemical castration is always an option.

Please don't do anything illegal!

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