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female
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30-35,
*ayomiii
writes:Well... Me and my boyfriend have been going for a couple months now, well from like October... And sometimes he`s really sweet and he`s stuck with me when I`ve cheated more than a couple of times. Anyway I`ll get to my point... he never shows any affection... Like we don`t kiss or hold hands and stuff like that but like we always seem to have sex... I try talking to him about it but I`m not to good at it and I never seem to get an answer. I`m starting to wonder if he just wants me for sex? What do u think? Reply to this Question
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reader, anonymous, writes (7 June 2009): If you are not getting what you want out of a relationship (such as affection), then the only way you can possibly get it is to ask for what you want. You say you are not good at saying something about it, but this is the only way to know.(I would look for reasons behind your cheating behaviors as well - is it because you are not getting what you want? Are you not ready for a relationship? Etc.? Because even now the fact that you have cheated is influencing the relationship - at the very least, you feel like you should stay with him because he has stayed with you despite affairs.) If, after you have told him what you need, and you notice no change in his behavior, you must face that you will not get what you need and move on.
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