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writes:im 16, gonna be a junior in the fall and im in love with a woman who is 18 and she just graduated. shes lived 2 houses away from me since i was 3 and babysat my little sister when my parents wouldnt trust me. they had no reason not to trust me, they just didnt because they were being weird.shes going to the cummunity college about 10 mins away and i want to tell her how i feel. she does have a bf but hes not a good guy at all. i know he cheats on her but she does nothing about it. i dont think she even knows to be honest. but i would never be that guy, ever! i would never cheat on her or hurt her. i just want her and make her happy.i know she doesnt think a lot of me because im just an underclassmen but i would treat her right. she does treat me like im older and has told me she loves me, but she was laughing while saying that.idk what to do! someone give advice, please! thanks! Reply to this Question
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reader, anonymous, writes (8 June 2009): hey thanks to both advisers. i appreciate it. for now i think im going to concentrate on the friendship she and i have. thanks again.
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reader, Danielepew  +, writes (7 June 2009):
 I don't know you, but I do agree that your parents didn't trust you just because they were being weird :-). You do sound like a cool guy. I like good fellows like you.
Ehem... Einstein understood the law of relativity, but he was never able to figure out how a woman thinks. It's something we never know. But a good rule of thumb, with anyone, is never ASSUME things. Know them for sure, instead. So, don't give me this "She doesn't think much of me" thing. You don't know that.
In principle, she should be off-limits, because she's taken. Yep, the other guy is mean and all, but she's with him. Again, don't ASSUME anything: we don't know if she knows about the cheating. Maybe not, but don't rush to conclusions here. The hard fact is that they are together.
I don't recommend that you just tell her how you feel. You can't just approach a person and drop the bomb. If you have a friendship, let her see you really, really like her; but don't go beyond that point. If she sees your interest, and acts on it, then you can do something. Otherwise, don't do a thing.
If it doesn't happen, be cool. A fine guy like you will find someone.
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reader, anonymous, writes (7 June 2009): tell her how you feel and see if she feels the same way. if she says she isnt all that into you, try and understand how she feels and try moving on. Maybe you will find another woman who will love you for who you are x
From, a high school girl.
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reader, anonymous, writes (7 June 2009): i apologize about the gender thing. i am, in fact, a guy.
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