I'm constantly wondering what could be between us..if anything?

A female age 41-50, *amakrista writes:

I was seeing this wonderful guy on and off a couple years ago. He was always the one to "let me go". He actually made the effort, though, to meet with me. He apologized for not giving us a chance and told me what a great girl I am and I'd make a great girlfriend/wife/mother. He wanted to give it another go. But again, he just "disappeared". I gave up and moved on. I actually became accidentally pregnant. I focused on that relationship and the birth of my child. She is one year old now. We are all living together but her father and I are not really together. Our relationship lacks very much and I've pretty much given up. I do hear from the wonderful guy every now and then, asking about my daughter and I. I am constantly wondering what could be there between us still, if anything. What would you suggest be my next step? Should I ask him out? Or should I just leave it go and stay with the father of my daughter and have no spark in the relationship?

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