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writes:Hello, Thanks for reading my post. I met a gorgeous girl that i am falling hard for. We met about 6 weeks ago, and every moment we have spent together has been perfect ever since. Very romantic dates... and We've had amazing conversations, amazing chemistry, and amazing sex(which we waited to have until last night for the first time.) I find myself thinking about her constantly when she isnt around, and when she is i have a permanent smile on my face. I can tell she is defintely into me(she texts me she misses me alot, bought me a card telling me shes glad we met,etc)but she plays her cards very close to the chest when it comes to her feelings for me. Me, i am the more wear your heart on your sleeve kind of guy.We have had conversations about committment,but it was hypothetically speaking, and was very early on in the relationship. I got the impression she was opposed to a committed relationship, although she never came out and said that. I am starting to have some very strong feelings for her, but i am afraid if i share that with her, she might get freaked out and bail. Should i continue to just keep playing it cool, and sweep her off her feet like ive been doing... Or should i let her know how i really feel, and that i want a relationship with her?
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reader, Burns231 +, writes (1 June 2009):
I would say just tell her how you feel but maybe put it like "I would like to be in an relationship with you." Get your point across but not to strong.
As you said, "I got the impression she was opposed to a committed relationship, although she never came out and said that." Maybe you misread her and what she was saying?
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