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Do I stay friends with him and hurt myself in the process?

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Question - (1 June 2009) 0 Answers - (Newest, )
A female United Kingdom age 30-35, *yameSohma writes:

Confused again. My ex boyfriend and i have started talking again. He asked me out a few days after we started talking to each other and he broke up with me a week after we started dating, telling me that he didnt have feelings for me and was not over his ex. Recently i feel that we are getting to know each other properly, and i fall more and more in love with him each time i speak to him my heart leaps whenever i see him. He says im a really good friend of his, i feel i would do anything for him and whenever he needs to talk im here for him. i feel like there could be something there And then he starts talking about his ex again.Telling me how much he loves and misses her, he says that i dont love him, that i dont know what love is as i havent spent days staring into his eyes, this may be true but i have seen as a friend parts of him that nobody else has, hes told me things he has never told other people and even the bad things. And i still feel like i love him. This is the strongest that i have ever felt for anybody ever.He tells me how hard it is knowing that she still has feelings for him but wont get back together, and her friends have told me that she hates him and will never get back, just enjoys teasing him. I dont know what is true but i care enough that i want him to be happy and he isnt. Also, selfishly i want to be the one to make him happy Its hurting me so much that hes unhappy and i have no idea what to do, Do i walk away and try to forget him?, Stay friends, try to make him happy and hurt myself in the process? I love him so much and i just dont know what to do.

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