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writes:I broke up with my boyfriend five months ago and the break up hurt me. I tried everything to get back together with him, but he's simply not interested, I love him so much and he was the best thing in my life.Each and every day I miss him and I would do anything to get back with him, but I don't know how to reach out to him.Please help. MOD NOTE: This has been re-written, in to readable English.
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reader, anonymous, writes (2 June 2009): Hey guys thank u alot i know crying over him wont get me anywer i need to forget him and get on my feet again.thank u alot i guess he wasnt meant for me
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reader, trshly  +, writes (1 June 2009):
 You can get over him.
But what you are doing currently will not help you to do so.
It is hard, but cut of contact. Don't be angry that he won't get back together with you, but don't try to remain friends either. Friendship, or more, may come in the future but for now, you really do need to focus on otherwise.
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reader, Anastasia  +, writes (1 June 2009):
 Hey girl, If you did the breaking up, then you noticed something was broken in the relationship, whether it be the trust or something else. He could not be the best thing in your life if you had to break up with him....smile. Please move on love, find someone who respects you enough not to push you that far to break up with them. It hurts, you miss him, ...and you are probably feeling like dying...give it time. Your prince will show you sooner or later!
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reader, The Shadow's Tears +, writes (1 June 2009):
 Hello,
well Hun, stop right there! tell me, why! did you break up with him if you loved him this much? it doesn't make since. but, if you have tried to get with him, and he keeps refusing, maybe it might be time to move on.
i say write him a letter, telling him why you broke up with him, how you feel about him, and why you want to get back together with him. "but, why a letter?" Because in a letter you can tell him just what you feel without getting interrupted, and it's easier then talking to his face. (it also might be good to tell him why your writing him instead of talking to him, just so he will understand the meaning for the letter.)
if he still is "not interested" then try to move on. it pointless to keep chasing a guy whom wants no relationship out of you. and i'm my eyes, a girl who keeps on pressuring a guy to take her back, is just desperate and sad. (NOT! saying this is you)
and don't you think that you can find a better guy out there, i mean there must of been a reason for breaking up with him right?
just remember this, "a flowers only true beauty, is when she loves, and is loved, by the world around her."
hope this helps!
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