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Is liking my best friend's ex wrong?

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Question - (1 June 2009) 3 Answers - (Newest, 1 June 2009)
A female United Kingdom age 30-35, *iss delicate writes:

i might like a boy who is a year younget than me. i told my friend but it happens to be her ex from 2 years ago. she got mad and wont talk to me... she turned every one against me and its been like this for 4 weeks now. and its getting to me really badly and getting me down. i dont know wat to do. i tried to apologise to her 2 weeks ago and it just made things worse she threw it straight back in my face is likeing your best mates ex wrong?

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A female reader, miss delicate United Kingdom +, writes (1 June 2009):

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miss delicate agony auntthank you :) thats really helped me:) .. and i didnt mean to click that vote thingy :| lol x

your comment has really cheered me up :) x

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A female reader, Anastasia Trinidad and Tobago +, writes (1 June 2009):

Anastasia agony auntHey Delicate,

Let us go through your letter one by one....

You met your friend's ex boyfriend of 2 years ago and you might like him. YOu did not know he was your friend's ex until you told her and she is mad at you. Has turned everyone against you and as a result you feel like poo!!! I hope I got all that right.

Who needs enemies when you have these type of wonderful friends?

She isn't worth it, you have not done anything wrong, if you like the guy, go for it....if she isn't mature and honest enough to let you know how she feels but rather tarnish your reputation...then trust me Bella...you dont' need her!!

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A female reader, anonymous, writes (1 June 2009):

well, no, it's not wrong, but she obviously thinks it is. You'll just have to hope that she comes to her senses soon... it may be time for a summer party to get things easier again. as for turning everyone against you, they're not really worth it.

I personally wouldnt go for this guy, he seems like trouble.

xx

She's probably upset because he dumped her, and him going out with you will make it seem like you're better than her.

(even if you ARE, this isn't something she'll want to admit!)

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