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writes:well hi im knda new to all of this but i need help with my girl. im in love and i told her so. she also said t back we both really like each other and it seems like everything going my way until she started playing hard to get a couple days ago. i dont know how to respond to this or why she is doing this but the fact remains that i love her. any advice or help would be great. Reply to this Question
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reader, CommonSpencer +, writes (1 June 2009):
Lose her or act like your busy too and see if she comes back to you. She might be keeping you around as a boyfriend drone, which I define as a good guy that some b/tch has to go and play head games with while she's still bed hopping.
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reader, anonymous, writes (1 June 2009): What is she doing to play hard to get?
I am a female... if I like (or love) a guy... I would not do that... but I have been on both ends of this situation.
You need to let her come to you. If you keep pushing it, she will keep pushing you away. If you lay low... and she stops playing the stupid games and goes back to normal... awesome.
If she doesn't stop... I'm really sorry - it will hurt for a while.
I completely understand you love her and it sucks when the other person isn't at the same level of feelings... (please remember this is 100% my own experience)... if I am unsure if I want to move forward with a guy and he is certain he wants to move forward and keeps pushing me or is much more into me than I am into him... I usually realize that I don't like him as much as he likes me and I move on.
If the guy is more into me than I am into him... and he pushes it once... I play hard to get for a couple of days and he doesn't bother me... I typically wonder why he isn't giving me as much attention as he once did... I typically hold interest for a while longer.
I know it is stupid...
It's so much easier and less stressful if you are both on the same feeling level at the same time!
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