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writes:OK this girl i been talking about in my previous questions?I am kinda nervous and i don't wanna be turned down she has a boyfriend who is on drugs smoke weed pcp take zannies perks oxy's and he screws all her friends and im trying to win her over i take her out she come to my house for sunday dinner etc. now today i was on the phone with my brothers girl and i was imitating like my brother. like hi baby whats are you doing etc so she told me don't disrespect me like that and i told her it was my bros girlfriend i want to know does it seem like i can win her over? i want to go to be with her but i don't know how to go about doing it because if i do that its a bigger chance i can win her over. FYI I am 18 years old i need advice please
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reader, anonymous, writes (1 June 2009): why would you want a girl who already has a boyfriend?
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reader, anonymous, writes (1 June 2009): Realise, that you can find someone much better - you can have anyone you like if you really want to.
Move on from this girl, you sound like a much better reasoned and more level headed guy. I've been that best friend before, Ive been the dude who is there as a shoulder to cry on and someone to talk to.
and when it doesn't work out, it sucks even more cause you loose a friend too.
Just keep on in life, and find someone whos good for you and you connect with on a level youre both on. She might like bad boys - Find a girl who has respect for you and wants to love you. :)
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reader, anonymous, writes (1 June 2009): by the way the advice from the CommonSpencer could be wrong everyone is different she might not be the same as his experience but then again she just may so if she is go with what CommonSpencer said but if not try my way out and be sure to post back we all wanna know your story of how it worked out!!
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reader, anonymous, writes (1 June 2009): Be a friend...be the BEST friend you can be...gain her trust...if she already does ask if you two can hang out sometime and just talk and in that convo do not say i am better than he is or better for you...dont make it look like you are trying to get her to dump him and get with you...WONT work tell her that there are far better guys out there and she deserves better than what she is getting...again do not make it look like you are trying to gain benefit she will just get upset with you but if you offer advise as a friend she will accept it and hey honestly man your right she shouldnt be with an immature guy like that but you need to understand she might not come running into your arms she might go to someone else and that you need to accept so that when you offer this advise it is true but remember she might just come running to you....ohh also do not ask her out right after the break up give her time to feel better but remain the BEST friend hang out with her and after one of your hangouts hopefully a movie or dinner when you drop her off at her place ask her how her night was and try to sneak in there you were hoping you could call it a date...
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reader, CommonSpencer +, writes (1 June 2009):
Find a better girl than this. Most girls that stay in relationships like this are either doing the same drugs themselves or fooling around all the time too. I hope I learned the lesson for you, but life doesn't come with an instruction manual.
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