How do I stop his horrible habits?

A female age 30-35, *J2luv writes:

I've been going out with this guy for nearly 9 months and love him to bits, but over the last month realised he has a lot of horrible habits. They've gotten to the point where I just get really frustrated and p'd off. He gets too comfortable, relaxed and laid back in my house like dirty shoes up on the couch when he just puts his legs up and once on my bed!! I was disgusted cause he got dirt on my lovely clean sheets which I'd only put on like an hour previous. His habits got worse (you don't even want to know!) and I can't believe he doesn't notice anymore what manners are. He used to be so sweet but now ... I can only describe it as too laid back and not really respecting my furniture. I don't know how to say it to him or how we'll sort it out because I want to be with him but these recent habits make me feel sick and frustrated.

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A female reader, Amy2007x  +, writes (2 June 2009):

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