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female
age
30-35,
anonymous
writes:I think I have some sort of commitment or trust issues because i start to like a boy and when he likes me back i start to get uninterested. it's not the fact that he likes me back that pushes me away, it's all the flirting and calling. when a boy starts doing all that, i find it annoying and pushy and creepy, like he needs to give me some SPACE. most "normal" girls would find all the flirting and texting and calling cute, but not me. i can never get too close (more than friends) because i get uncomfortable. but i do want a boyfriend; someone to spend a lot of time with and do bf/gf things because it looks...fun, i guess. maybe i dont want it enough to actually go for it? i don't know. and it's not just in the boy department. it's pretty much any relationship that makes me uncomfortable.basically, i like being alone, but i strive for some company. any advice? please? im desperate!
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reader, CommonSpencer +, writes (1 June 2009):
Well if all that makes you uncomfortable why not try saying a couple of these phrases and it might make things go smoother. "You don't have to dote on me." "You don't have to flirt with me we already know we like each other." I don't try coming up with some better ones, but communication is key. If you don't like the way they act tell them you can't stand that and you'd rather it stay the way its been.
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reader, niki20 +, writes (1 June 2009):
 if you like to be alone why dont you maybe have a fwb relationship. ot has no strinhs attatched. or even better just find a friend and gradually begin a best friend relationship then finally go for a bf/gf relationship. you have to gradually introduce yourself to new things and if you dont like all the calling find someone who understands, most guys do that to keep their girls happy, im sure the guy wohldnt have a problem w/out talking on te phone all day :) hope this helped good luck
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