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writes:I have been dating this guy for a while and he wants to do cam2cam...i am willing to do this but i don't really know what happens during cam2cam. I know that it does involve getting naked but what else do you do???please help because i don't want to get myself into something i'm not 100% comfortable withthanks Reply to this Question
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reader, anonymous, writes (2 June 2009): Cam2Cam is where you do sexual things but on cam, basicaly like you get naked and he asks you to finger yourself or something maybe show things thats your own privacy. its up to you wat your choice is but i seriously advise you not to coz you dont know who this guy is, many people could be in that room without you knowing.
the best thing to do is NOT DO IT, he could be anyone of any age. dont make a mistake you will regret for the rest of your life :D x
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reader, anonymous, writes (1 June 2009): of course what he does with it is only half the story... remember others might be sitting outside of his camera (so they are unseen) and watching you.
all you are basically doing is like phone sex (e.g. suggestive masturbation) but with pictures.
see this article for some advice...
http://www.dearcupid.org/question/is-it-fun-to-take-pictures--why.html
don't do it - it is really not worth it.
Star.x.
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reader, natasia +, writes (1 June 2009):
 Don't be daft - you are too trusting. Think about it. You take your clothes off in what seems the privacy of your own room, with this one guy watching you - but (a) he could so easily be videoing it and (b) maybe all his mates are sitting on the other side of the room watching!! No, no, no ... just don't do it. You will so regret it if you do. Don't expose yourself like that.
Get naked with someone you know and love and trust, and who is next to you in bed!
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reader, Shonababes +, writes (1 June 2009):
Huh cam 2 cam isnt always for you to 'strip'. If he saiis he wants u to get naked then thats up to you but cam 2 cam is where u and whoever your chatting to both go on cam for the sake of seeing each others faces OR cam2cam could mean that you have a video chat. My mates alwaiis ask me to do 'cam2cam' honestly its not alwaiis getting naked. If he saiis it tho its up to you.
Let me know if this helps.
Good Luck x
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reader, Olivia(Y). +, writes (1 June 2009):
 "Cam2Cam" is where you take your clothes off on cam while watching the other person and pleasuring yourself via webcam while the other person does the same.
Not the best idea. There is such a thing called print screan and he could video it. If he does then he could do anything with the pictures or video and anyone could see it.
I wouldn't do this, its not romantic, it will just give you a cheap image to this boy. Make him wait to be with you and to make love if your both ready and know you love and trust each other.
Livia
xoxox
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reader, anonymous, writes (1 June 2009): He may want you to get naked/masturbate/watch him masturbate. Don't do it just to please him if you're not comfortable with it.
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reader, anonymous, writes (1 June 2009): DON'T DO IT. Basically your guy will pressure you to get naked, touch yourself, talk dirty etc etc. I wouldn't recommend it at your age to be perfectly honest.
Have you met this guy in real life? If he is an actual person you are dating in real life, and you are comfortable being sexual with/around him anyway, then I suppose it's no big deal. But if this is a boy you met online and you have not met him yet, be prepared for some major awkwardness if things don't work out. There are men out there who record images of girls doing their thing to put online on porn sites. So your image will be there for everyone to see.
Unless you trust him 100% and want to do this, then fine. But the fact that you don't even know what he is asking you to do makes me think you should not!
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reader, eyeswideopen  +, writes (1 June 2009):
 Don't do it, those pictures are on the Internet forever. Also know that if you place any questionable pictures on FaceBook or MySpace, prospective employers, college admissions, future boyfriends, and grandma may see them. Just not a wise idea all together. Keep your clothes on.
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