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Should I complain about this liftman and if so how do I go about it???

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Question - (1 June 2009) 3 Answers - (Newest, 2 June 2009)
A female Australia age 30-35, anonymous writes:

I saw the most disturbing thing ever! I live in a 20 storey apartment and I live in the 16th floor so I take the elevator obviously.

We have a new liftman, he is a college dropout that's what he told me anyways, he is like 20 years old. Once I was waiting for the elevator and when it opens I see this man making out with a girl rather say a kid, I was shocked, I mean what the hell. I just ignored it.

The other time around I think 3 weeks from then he was making out with an old aged woman around 50 years of age!

I am really getting disturbed with this mans behaviour. I decided to complain, what do I do?

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A female reader, QuirkLady United States +, writes (2 June 2009):

QuirkLady agony auntI'd complain to the building management because this is not something he should be doing at work. If he wants to make out on his own time, that's his business, but he definitely should not be doing that at his job! Very unprofessional.

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A female reader, vamp-gal United Kingdom +, writes (1 June 2009):

vamp-gal agony auntSo have you complained? If not you should, this isn't the behaviour that people should have while they're working, this is stuff that should be going on in their private life and not something that people want to see.

I mean really and truely what happens if a small child walks into see something like that? I mean it may just be kissing but considering it's with people much older or much younger it isn't the sort of thing you want children to think is acceptable..

Anyway, I really hope this helps!

Good Luck!

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A female reader, Anastasia Trinidad and Tobago +, writes (1 June 2009):

Anastasia agony auntI am just really curious about your view of things that are disturbing.

A young man is making out with a young girl and then an older woman....how is this disturbing? Because it is in a public place, it isn't like they were indecently exposed or where they?

Who he chooses to make out with or vice versa has nothing to do with you? Complain about what exactly? There is this one guy that is making out with grannies and lasses in the elevator? Okay! And?

You can't go about judging people and their behaviour just because you dont' agree with it. We are all entitled to our own behaviour. Once he isn't doing anything illegal I see no issue here.

Is anyone else complaining?? Take the stairs luv!!!

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