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Get involved with someone my own age?

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Question - (1 June 2009) 0 Answers - (Newest, )
A female United Kingdom age 30-35, anonymous writes:

I am 17 and have recently been on a few dates with a really nice guy

Only thing is he is 6 years older than me and has a 2 year old kid

I am in the middle of my A Levels and come from a well off bacgkground and am planning on going to university next year

the guy I have been out with dropped out of college, works in a call centre and is a bit 'rough'.

I like him a lot and im not really looking for anything serious, we get on dead well and have a laugh together. He has a soft side which I love and treats me like a princess

Im just worried that, partly because he has a child and is in the middle of a custody battle, im too young to be getting involved with someone whos so different to my guy friends, who are all eighteen and doing exams and going out on the pull

I havent told my mum because I know she would kill me, shes not the type to say I cant see him but I know it would bring about huge arguments between us, especially because of the age gap.

Im just looking for advice on what the best thing to do is, i like him but i dont really want anything too serious, i have given him the wrong impression i think though as i have already slept with him, making the whole thing a bit more serious.

is it worth getting involved with him or should i go for someone my own age?

Please help!

J x

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