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Is it too soon to ask if he is dating other people?

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Question - (1 June 2009) 2 Answers - (Newest, 1 June 2009)
A female United States age 41-50, *ae writes:

I have been dating this guy I met on-line for 3 weeks now. We talk everyday, text and have gone out a number of times... Everything is great! I really like him... he seems to really like me... the problem is, I recently logged in to the website we met on... I was able to see that we had just been logged in himself. I actually stopped going on and was only on because I was curious if he had been.

Other information...

we have been "very intimate"

Questions:

Is it too soon to ask him if he is dating other people?

If no, how do I approach the subject?

I don't want to scare him away... I really like this one:)

OR: How do I make him so crazy about me that he realizes this for himself? :)

(If anyone has this answer... you should be a millionaire!)

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A female reader, yae United States +, writes (1 June 2009):

yae is verified as being by the original poster of the question

Thank you for your advice! Very helpful!

I went back on the website to become "active" again.

I won't say anything... hopefully he will bring it up one day.

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A male reader, anonymous, writes (1 June 2009):

The best answer is to just not worry about it. If the time you guys spend together is really working out, eventually it'll take care of itself.

If you ask, it probably won't be that serious, but it's better to not let self-doubt or a need to protect yourself get in the way of enjoying your time together. If you're still willing to see him again no matter what the answer, it probably isn't worth it to worry about it.

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