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writes: I found out that my good two "friends" were sleeping with my now ex-boyfriend. I dumped them all and I haven't talk to them for about 2 months. Well My "friends" have been begging me to hang with me because they are sorry and want us to be buddies again. I don't think I trust them ever again and Im also worried they might try to steal my new boyfriend (I've been dating him for four weeks now). Am I just being paranoid?
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reader, ZonnaBlume  +, writes (17 July 2009):
 wow girls are just stupid. every one has had that friend who done that. there are still a bunch of my friends who have slept with my various exs and i still cannot forgive them for the life of me. but you have to look at your friends and your ex. it was all three of there faults. it sucks and you never know if they will do that to you again. it hurts when you feel like you have to watch your back and your in that fear of them doing that aaign. honestly if you think you can deal with it then yes hangout with them again but if you dont think you can dont go out of your way to be there friend.
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reader, RAINORFIRE  +, writes (17 July 2009):
 Theese dont sound like freinds personally i would move on theese girls seem immature, but on the same not people should be given a second chance at times everyone makes a mistake, what do theese girls bring to the table are they normally there for you when you need them dont just invite them back into your life because you feel bad for them, secondly if you have to worry about your bf cheating on you with any one then you shouldnt be with him
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reader, Jason32477 +, writes (17 July 2009):
 Are you going to take your ex back as well?Maybe hang out with Charles Manson and start a heroin addiction? Are you nuts to even suggest this???They betrayed you.Treat them as such.
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