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How can I last longer during sex?

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Question - (17 July 2009) 2 Answers - (Newest, 19 July 2009)
A male United States age 51-59, *rkwen writes:

So I seem to have a hard time lasting during sex. After the foreplay when we get to the act I last maybe 10 to 15 seconds then its all over. This never used to be a problem when I was younger. Is there anything that can help me last longer? Oh and I tried the thinking about other things, no help there.

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A male reader, anonymous, writes (19 July 2009):

I have this problem too although I never used to either. The only thing that has changed is that I am with a different person and I get sex very rarely these days. The latter does not help as when it comes to it I am so charged up it is over very quickly. I think communication is the key. If you are comfortable with your partner she should help and you can start and stop etc when you are on the brink. Unfortunately I don't have that communication and have completely lost confidence. If you can discuss this and have a close realtionship then you should be able to put this right between you.

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A male reader, anonymous, writes (18 July 2009):

i had the problem too, there are a few things i did to fix it... one was masterbait alot for long periods of time to keep stimulation low... and to hav a bit of beer before i hav sex. a little buzz wont hurt itl acctually spice things up a bit... ull become more daring

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