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41-50,
*om123
writes: Hi, My lesbian girlfriend is really great and I don't want to end things with her, but it's just not fun anymore. When we first got together it was great. We had amazing sex, licked, sucked, kissed, all the trimmings. But I need something new to do with her. We've watched porn together and done the same as what they do on there, which was fantastic at first, but in the end it just got boring. We have used sex toys, fake penis's and everything. Please give me some positions or tips on what to do. Thanks
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reader, anonymous, writes (17 July 2009): Have you tried leaving the sex for a week or two and then going out to a burlesque night to titallate before going home? I find sexy underwear, great music etc a great addition to sex. sometimes people just stop being attracted sexually to each other but often it is just overfamiliarity, you are both used to each others bodies and responses so the passion diminishes.I also find that some light fun in the whips, handcuffs etc fun, have you tried lighthearted spanking (a good giggle if you have a sense of humour) Also try going on lesbian site such as shoe and asking about as we all have various ways of having wonderful sex.So, perhaps an enforced no touching for a week or so followed by a sexy night out and some laid back touching and kissing. Dont have full sex, wait another week or so with little touching and then after another sexy night out to see a strip tease or something (another great laugh) go home and I virtually guarantee you great sex again.
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