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41-50,
*az uk
writes:so it been 4 weeks since me and my ex have split up i got a flat just round the road from her we have 2 kids and i want to be near them she asked me to leave she said i was making her unhappy and i was doing nothing around the house i had just lost my job and she said i wasent looking for one all of this was wrong i was looking for work i was doing house work and decorating she said she loves me but cant live with me we had split a few times before for a few days this time i aint even sad i love her so much and to be truefull i would go back tomorrow but is it love or familure and why does she hurt me like this you dont hurt the ones you love
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reader, thatgothgirl20  +, writes (17 July 2009):
 If you really were doing things and looking for a job she may be interested in someone else.
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reader, Jason32477 +, writes (17 July 2009):
 "you dont hurt the ones you love" If only that were true for it`s the ones we love that have the ability to hurt us the most. Why is she doing this is a question I can`t answer.Some thing is obviously troubling her and it runs deeper than what she is telling you.Communication is the best advise I can give.Talk to her.Open up to her.Try to find out what is really troubling her.You have 2 kids together.If at all possible you need to try and make things work.And if you can get your foot in the door don`t forget to put romance back in the picture.Good luck.
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