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writes:What should be the best way to get in contact with a lost friend after six years of absence? I was romantically involved (non sexual way) with one of my college professors. At that time he was on his fourties and I want on my twenties. Although the age difference, I felt truly loved by him, he never disrespected me in any way. His love was so pure. Our relationship ended when I transferred to continue my studies. All of a sudden communication ended, and I met the person who ruined my life. I remember the day he called after months of not appearing in my life. I was three months pregnant. I told him and he was in total shock. I didn't expect him to call me after so long. He told me he thought "I had a head on my shoulders". He admitted that he loved me. I was never sure if he liked me as I did. In the beginning I didn't know what he meant but now I do. I know his office number, i still remember. The other day, I called not expecting him to answer. He did! I heard his voice and I froze. I couldn't speak. Beautiful feelings i felt lost appeared. I felt like that young girl who was in love again. I began to realize the lack of love i felt on my past relationship. I hanged up with the desire to let him know it was me. He could have moved on, perhaps he doesn't remember me. I am afraid to re appear in his life and look dumb. Reply to this Question
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reader, Jason32477 +, writes (17 July 2009):
 Well it certainly can`t hurt to try.Don`t hit him with everything all at once, but do call him and open a line of communication.See where that takes you.Tell him a little about where your life has gone.Give him your # , email whatever and hope he gets back to you.If he does then its a good bet he may have feelings for you.Then you can open up a little more.Drop a hint about how you use to feel about him. Next day push the envelope and come clean.If he is married or not interested you haven't lost anything.If you don`t try you will always wonder.
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