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writes:holy hell some one help asap. i had this girl i was dating for 4 1/2 years. i loved her more then anything in the world. and two months ago she killed me on the inside when she broke up with me to c other people. i love this girl still. well a few days back her lil sis snaped her cell in half. and that cell happens to b in my name. so she went to cell store n they told her she would hav to go through me because i am the account holder... long story short i bent ovr backwards for my ex... the person who ripped me in half just to c her smile when she got her phone fixed and it was back with her.. she now wants to hav lunch with me on sunday and she sent me a pic mail of something that only she and i would get pertaining to our relationship in the past... (the pic was of a nick-name her fam gave me when she and i started dateing) and it has me falling in love all over again.. i dont want to b stuck getting screwed over again and i dont kno if i should go to lunch or reply to the pic mail. also wen i saw her to give her her cell backshe was wearing the clata ring i gave her with the heart facing in... and if u kno any thing about the ring that means she is in love with some one and whatnot. now is she wearing the ring still for me or is she wearing the ring for the guy she is talkin to? im so confused and i dont want to get hurt again... i just got out of my rutt and i stoped drinking so much to ease the pain of going home to an empty apt every night... some one help i dont know wat to do!!!!
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reader, cranberry28  +, writes (20 July 2009):
ok just realised that you CAN'T get back to me if I posted this anonymously. Sorry, so here it is :)
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reader, anonymous, writes (17 July 2009): Wow, this is very similar to my current situation! Was with my boyfriend for over four years and I broke up as I fell in love with another guy. Didn't tell him about the guy, would kill him.
I think if your ex had worn this ring for another guy she probably would have taken it off before seeing you (as it would be rude wearing it while you're doing her a favour even if you don't know about the guy. That's at least what I would do as I am very sensitive to these kind of things).
In my point of view that are signals that have to be taken very seriously if you still want to be with her. I would say you should go for it! Meet up with her and see what she has to say. It can't be as bad as the feeling of regret you may have when you won't do it.
Maybe she did see other people and realised that nobody can come close to you? Sometimes people need time apart to find to each other again.
Let me know how it went! :)
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