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writes:My husband is going on a camping vacation with his exwife and some of his adult children. He kept it secret from me untill recently when he had to admit it because of buying a airline ticket. She is not bringing her husband and he asked me to go only after I was upset and knowing full well I couldn't get the time off of work. I told him it bothered me because of the way it looks period. Basically no matter how I feel, he is going anyway. That just hurts! I am wrong to feel bothered?
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reader, Shannet  +, writes (19 July 2009):
 If you have a problem with him going on the camping trip simply hide his passport...
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reader, anonymous, writes (19 July 2009): If i was you i would hide his passport.
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reader, Stars20 +, writes (17 July 2009):
 Something is going on there. Sometimes ex partners are not really over the other.
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reader, Hannah-Kimberley +, writes (17 July 2009):
It does sound rather suspicious to be honest, have you tried speaking to the ex's husband ?? maybe he feels the same way and maybe suspects somehing too, between the two of you you might be able to work out what's going on. It may turn out to be completely innocent but make sure you have friends and family around to support you in whatever decision you chose to make and Good luck (:
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reader, Jayney Y  +, writes (17 July 2009):
 Er, no, you have every right to be bothered. He chose to end his first marriage, and that's where it stops, his kids are grown up, and he doesn't have to do things to please them any longer. Where does he get off sneaking around behind your back? OK, sometimes family things aren't very comfortable for a new partner, but those issues should be out in the open, not carried out like a 'cloak and dagger' spy operation. I would be contacting the spouse of his ex-wife and asking how he feels about the whole thing. If he's fully informed and happy with it, then I would be asking your spouse why he felt the need to sneak around behind your back. The whole thing is wrong on so many levels. Good luck dealing with him, he sounds like a sissy who's frightened of his family. :)
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reader, Honeypie +, writes (17 July 2009):
 No you are not wrong in feeling bothered or ticked off. The fact that he kept it secret is a big red flag, the fact that HER husband isn't going, is again a red flag, and again, you weren't invited til you found out about it and he "had" to invite you, knowing full well that you wouldn't be able to go.
Something is going on.
I'm sorry.
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