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writes:Should I be upset or making too much out of it? B/f calls me prior to my lunch hour, asks me to pick up burgers and come to his work. I come with food, he's not there. I call his cell, no answer. His co-workers say they haven't seen him all morning, I tell them he's expecting me. I drop off food at his desk, go to bathroom, wash up, come back call him again. I call him again. No answer. I eat my hamburger, and leave slightly pissed. He's got two college women working with him, and they were out back working on a project. So busy he couldn't pull himself away apparently (the project was trivial believe me, I later found out). He totally spaced me out. I wasted my time coming there, when all he had to do was find a stopping point and come eat, since he invited me! I swear everytime there's a new female working in his office he acts flaky like this and then accuses me of being jealous. Hello! I felt like I took a backseat to his two little co-workers and it pissed me off. It's like he tries too hard to impress them, and forgets about my feelings. Do I have a right to be pissed. We haven't had lunch together in weeks because he's always so-o busy training these two young women......Hmmmm. Please advise!!!
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reader, Jason32477  +, writes (17 July 2009):
 Do you have a right to be pissed? YES!!!
Its not a relationship ending ordeal thank goodness but he was extremely negligent.And owes you an apology.You took time out of your day for him and he caused it to be a total wast of effort.He should have apologized for that and if it was me bought you a small gift.I wouldn`t worry to much about the women he works with unless he gives you a reason to.It does make you appear to be jealous ,even if its only natural to be.I bet if the situation were to be reversed his reaction would be a lot worse than yours has been.The only thing you can really do is talk to him and let him know how you feel.
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reader, thatgothgirl20 +, writes (17 July 2009):
 Let him go. I think he is trying to get you to make a scene or something to make himself look good.
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