New here? Register in under one minute   Already a member? Login245057 questions, 1084625 answers  

  DearCupid.ORG relationship advice
  Got a relationship, dating, love or sex question? Ask for help!Search
 New Questions Answers . Most Discussed Viewed . Unanswered . Followups . Forums . Top agony aunts . About Us .  Articles  . Sitemap

I'm 22. She's 14 and has a crush on me. Is it legal?

Tagged as: Dating, Forbidden love<< Previous question   Next question >>
Question - (17 July 2009) 7 Answers - (Newest, 21 July 2009)
A male United States age 36-40, anonymous writes:

Hi,

a girl had a crush on me and she would like to have a relationship.

She's only 14 y.o. while I'm 22.

I never had sex before and she's attracted to me.

Would it be legal with her?

Thx

View related questions: crush

<-- Rate this Question

Reply to this Question


Share

Fancy yourself as an agony aunt? Add your answer to this question!

A female reader, TheAgonyAunt United Kingdom +, writes (21 July 2009):

TheAgonyAunt agony auntNo I think you both need to move on and find someone nearer your age.

<-- Rate this answer

A reader, anonymous, writes (20 July 2009):

This is verified as being by the original poster of the question

Should I wait until she's 16?

<-- Rate this answer

...............................   

A reader, anonymous, writes (18 July 2009):

This is verified as being by the original poster of the question

I'm her teacher and we might fall in love.

How can I work it out?

<-- Rate this answer

...............................   

A female reader, anonymous, writes (18 July 2009):

VERY ILLEGAL. and kind of disturbing

<-- Rate this answer

...............................   

A female reader, TheAgonyAunt United Kingdom +, writes (17 July 2009):

TheAgonyAunt agony auntNo it is definatly NOT legal.

You have to move on, if the police found out about it you'd be prosocuted and labelled as a paedophile.

Your better off finding someone closer your own age that is legal.

Hope you take my advice.

<-- Rate this answer

...............................   

A male reader, anonymous, writes (17 July 2009):

While it can depend on a number of factors, it is most likely illegal in your jurisdiction. Typically, this is state law and that varies widely. In your case, it is likely illegal due to the difference in age. It may be illegal due to her age.

<-- Rate this answer

...............................   

A male reader, vba67 United States +, writes (17 July 2009):

Totally illegal! My advice, leave her alone (run away, run real fast). Do not mess up your life with child molestation charges, because that's what it would be if you proceed with any type of sexual relations with this young child. I've just finish listening about a teacher sleeping with one of his students on the news last night. They were caught in a parking lot at 2:00am in the morning. Now he's in jail with enticing a minor for sex, although she was the one who initiated everything with him (He's the adult, so its his fault). His outcome could easily be yours, with you in prison.

Do not get a crush mixed up with love, because crushes are most likely short term and won't last.

Remember, RUN, RUN AWAY AS FAST AS YOU CAN AND DON'T LOOK BACK!

<-- Rate this answer

...............................   

Add your answer to the question "I'm 22. She's 14 and has a crush on me. Is it legal?"

Already have an account? Login first
Don't have an account? Register in under one minute and get your own agony aunt column - recommended!

All Content Copyright (C) DearCupid.ORG 2004-2008 - we actively monitor for copyright theft

0.031231699998898!