A
male
age
36-40,
anonymous
writes: Hi,a girl had a crush on me and she would like to have a relationship.She's only 14 y.o. while I'm 22.I never had sex before and she's attracted to me. Would it be legal with her?Thx
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reader, TheAgonyAunt +, writes (21 July 2009):
No I think you both need to move on and find someone nearer your age.
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reader, anonymous, writes (20 July 2009): This is verified as being by the original poster of the questionShould I wait until she's 16?
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reader, anonymous, writes (18 July 2009): This is verified as being by the original poster of the questionI'm her teacher and we might fall in love.
How can I work it out?
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female
reader, anonymous, writes (18 July 2009): VERY ILLEGAL. and kind of disturbing
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reader, TheAgonyAunt +, writes (17 July 2009):
No it is definatly NOT legal.
You have to move on, if the police found out about it you'd be prosocuted and labelled as a paedophile.
Your better off finding someone closer your own age that is legal.
Hope you take my advice.
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reader, anonymous, writes (17 July 2009): While it can depend on a number of factors, it is most likely illegal in your jurisdiction. Typically, this is state law and that varies widely. In your case, it is likely illegal due to the difference in age. It may be illegal due to her age.
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reader, vba67 +, writes (17 July 2009):
Totally illegal! My advice, leave her alone (run away, run real fast). Do not mess up your life with child molestation charges, because that's what it would be if you proceed with any type of sexual relations with this young child. I've just finish listening about a teacher sleeping with one of his students on the news last night. They were caught in a parking lot at 2:00am in the morning. Now he's in jail with enticing a minor for sex, although she was the one who initiated everything with him (He's the adult, so its his fault). His outcome could easily be yours, with you in prison.
Do not get a crush mixed up with love, because crushes are most likely short term and won't last.
Remember, RUN, RUN AWAY AS FAST AS YOU CAN AND DON'T LOOK BACK!
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