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Should I confess my feelings to my friend? He's giving me mixed signals and has a girlfriend!

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Question - (17 July 2009) 2 Answers - (Newest, 18 July 2009)
A female United States age 30-35, *aniix3 writes:

Dear Cupid,

I have a situation. I have been liking this boy for over 3 yeard but I have never gotten the guts to tell him how i felt. When he graduated from middle school (he's a grade older than me) I lost touch with him but then one day i found him on myspace and after that we started to talk. A few days passed and I was ready to tell him how I felt but I found out that he had a girlfriend so I didnt tell him and just became his good friend. Three months after getting with his girlfriend she broke up with him and he was very depressed but I was the one that was always there to cheer him up. We would talk everyday for long periods of time but then when school started (we go to different schools)we atill talked and I would always see him in church on sundays but then around November him and the girl who broke up with him (his ex) got back together and since then they've been together like on his AIM aways its said i love my wife, always and forever and stuff like that which makes me upset because i really like him like sometimes i think i fell in love with him. We still talk everyday and he flirts alot with me. Like once after church I said hi and when i logged on AIM he was like when you said hi today you semlt good and all i wanted to do is pull you to me and smell you. He gives me mix signals and I'm not sure what i should do. SHould confess my feelings to him or keep them to myself?

Help!

--Daniix3

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A female reader, anonymous, writes (18 July 2009):

i find that when a girl thinks there are mixed signals its because she wants there to be something there that just isn't! if a guy really really likes you, then you'll know and he won't let anything stand in the way of being with you and if he isn't doing taht then you need to find someone who will

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A female reader, anonymous, writes (17 July 2009):

keep em 2 urself, if its meant 2 work out it will, after she breaks up with him again, hell probably realize that ur the one that stuck by his side this whole time, but guys r stupid, so give him little hints like find a song that describes ur feelings for him, and tell him u dedicated it 2 him, thats wat my bf did 4 me, and it was a really awesum idea, just be chill, and ull have him sooner or later, good luck!

Im Yours by Jason Mraz is a good 1, also With Me by Sum 41, those work great =]

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