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writes:Okay, so me and my friend were talking about the typical guy's thing: girls. We were talking about all the girls we knew in high school and wondered what they were doing after high school. I mentioned that I saw one girl (I'll call her Nicole), and her friend (Amy) at the store. After I told him I'd like to keep in touch with Nicole, and he told me she was a whore, so I listened to him. My friend Scott knows a lot about the girls because he was really good friends with them back during the middle school years and even in elementary. He was talking to me about how all the girls we knew from elementary and middle school really got pretty once they went to high school. He told me one girl (I'll call her Kelly) got really pretty. I told him I remembered her, and was curious if I should start talking to her. He said she was the nice "church kind of girl." I told him I wanted to start talking to her, but I wouldn't know how.Well, me and her are friends on Facebook, and I was going to send her a little hey. But here's my problem, me and this girl have never talked, I mean ever. And we know about each other's existence. For instance, if somebody said "Hey, do you know this guy?" she'd by like "Oh yeah I went to school with him". It's that type of thing.So, how would I go about starting a conversation with this person, without making it weird?Thanks, any help is appreciated.
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reader, Hannah-Kimberley  +, writes (17 July 2009):
Say something like: 'Hi hope you are ok ?? i found your profile and thought you seemed like a nice person so thought i would leave you a message. I think you know one of my mates, Scott ??' Or something like that, play it cool and be polite. I don't have much patience for rude guys, and i know that a lot of my girl friends don't either. Good Luck With it (:
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reader, bskitten +, writes (17 July 2009):
Maybe start by commenting on her status once in a while if you genuinely have something to say, this will put you on her radar. From there it can progress to the occasional wall post and then the facebook chat and eventually you can ask her on a date. Why else would you contact her? Girls know guys aren't looking for friendship out of the blue on the internet, rather looking for a date. If she's interested, she will reply. If not, don't bother her. :)
I speak from experience, you'll never know until you try. Good luck!
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