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writes:My ex and i broke up 4 months ago. Even though we broke up, the sex hasn't stopped. He has moved on and it kills me. Because we still talk and have sex I'm still attached. I still love him and want to be with him. He tells me he still cares but he loves his girlfriend. When we have sex it actually means something to both of us. I thought he would be the only one for me. I saw him as my future husband. Should i give up on him or keep trying?
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reader, anonymous, writes (18 July 2009): UMmmm - you split up a mere 4 months ago, he since then has a new girlfriend he 'loves', and he is sleeping with you both!! How long after you broke up did he "Fall in love" with the new girl - 1 week, 2 weeks?? I think people use the word LOVE too easily - and that is why you all sleep around without remorse or guilt. You are sleeping guy who has a girlfriend, he is slleping with you behind his girlfriends back - shame on you and him! I think you should get back together as you deserve each other and let the new girlfriend find someone decent!
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reader, Darlinxx  +, writes (18 July 2009):
men who do this really arnet good for u. as much as u enjoy the sex and how attached to you, he shouldnt be doing this to you. i think you should at least try to let go n stop the sex and talking. its really not good for u as good as it might feel, basically he is acting like a complete penis and shouldnt be stringing u along like this,, good luck hun x
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reader, Jayney Y  +, writes (17 July 2009):
 Grrrr! Men who do this aren't good for you or their new girlfriend. Of course he tells you the sex means something to him, it means he gets a healthy sex life! Think about how his new girlfriend would feel if she realised how duplicitous he is. Please move on, you will find someone who is worthy of you.
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reader, jaime90 +, writes (17 July 2009):
 think about this - if he is cheating with you what would stop him from cheating on you? once a cheater always!
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reader, anonymous, writes (17 July 2009): This is verified as being by the original poster of the questionThanks so much. It was hard for me to put the pieces together and realize this. We were together since middle school. He was just such a big part of my life its hard to let go. & yes his girl friend knows he cheated but not that it was with me.
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reader, torlol +, writes (17 July 2009):
 He is being such a jerk. You dont want to marry a cheater you are better off not having sex with him anymore and try to move on as well.
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reader, anonymous, writes (17 July 2009): He doesnt love you or her, so please stop saying so. I think you should rat him out to the other girl and you two join forces and find out any other girls he is with and cut his woman supply off. He is a jerk.
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reader, Jason32477 +, writes (17 July 2009):
 If his current gf does not know about him still sleeping with you then you should do 2 things.
1.leave his pathetic cheating lying ass.
2.tell his current gf what a pathetic cheating lying ass he is and apologize to her for falling for his charms.
Why?Because if he is cheating on her he will cheat on you.Weather you like it or not you better believe it.
If on the slim chance she knows about all this because he has already told her then at least he is capable of putting some trust in and there is some hope for him.I`d still suggest backing off seance he can`t make up his mind what he wants.Right now your playing second fiddle.Second fiddles are the first to get dumped.But there is still some hope in this scenario.
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reader, anonymous, writes (17 July 2009): I'm sorry but he's gone. His words say one thing and his actions say another. Stop believing his words.
You're still paying (sex) for a relationship that he is no longer delivering. Stop paying him.
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