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*hit916
writes:well I'm 14 and I had sex about a month ago and I think I may be pregnant..I didn't really want to do it with him..Well if I am I refuse to tell my dad..I want to have an abortion if this is the case..but I can't trust anybody!! Geez this is crazy...I have had no symptoms of being pregnant but I have had symptoms of period..I had a period for a whole day, that's it..My bestfriend is 14 too and she bought my a home test and it was negative..SO should I keep stressing or be concerned?Please help! anyone! I'm crying and VERY scared..thanks
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reader, whit916 +, writes (21 July 2009):
whit916 is verified as being by the original poster of the questionhey guys. thanks for all the help. I took all of ur advice and quit stressing so much. My period is back on track. I started 7/18 and it's still going and it's all normal. it's a little lighter than normal, but oh well. thanks for all the supprt! I love you all!! I don't wanna have sex til I'm married!3whit:)
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reader, Jayney Y  +, writes (20 July 2009):
 Get another test kit ASAP, (and make sure you do as it says and use urine from the first pee you take in the morning), if it comes back negative again, I think you can assume you're safe. Because you bled for a day, you probably won't get another period until your next one would actually be due. :)
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reader, whit916 +, writes (19 July 2009):
whit916 is verified as being by the original poster of the questionwell when would be best? it's only been a month..?
I'm scared.
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reader, uncle Frank  +, writes (18 July 2009):
 Dear whit 91, go to your nearest or any clinic.
It is against the law for the to tell you parent.
You can have free tests because you are only 14. You can get the pills that you need to take EVERY day as it says on the box or on the paper.
Also ask for tests to see if you have got HIV or other Sexually Transmitted Diseases and let them give you medication for it if you are sick.
You should not have sex so young: you body is not ready for it even if your friends say it is.
Yes stress can offset a period and also give you tummy cramps as IF you were pregnant.
Take more tests.
But remember: even with the 'pill' for at least three months: you CAN get pregnant even if you are taking it.
Don't go for a 'under the skin implant' you are too young and it can affect your ovaries for the future. Not just for having babies later, when you want them, but for cancer.
uncle Frank at 'Dear Cupid'
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reader, whit916 +, writes (18 July 2009):
whit916 is verified as being by the original poster of the questionthis is really a BIG relief..thanks girls!!
I'm hoping I'm not..
I'm 14 so how could I go to the dctr without a parent?
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reader, imcurioustoo +, writes (17 July 2009):
Hey, im 17 have been pregnant and had an abortion myself, telling your parents is the the 2nd hardest part, the harder part is thinking do I really want a baby or not, but for me it wasn't a matter of wanting it was a matter of doing what I NEEDED to do, my best choice. I don't think you're pregnant, but you really should contact your local health dep. And go in get a pap smere and get put on birth control, you're a minor its free and confidental they won't tell your parents I promise bcuz its illegal.. Just be careful sweetie, sex is a big deal? I mean if god intended a baby evertime damn the world would be so overpopulated. Best of luck sweetie and stop stressing you're fine
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reader, Jayney Y +, writes (17 July 2009):
Sometimes stress can make a period late. If you're getting period pains I would guess that you're not pregnant and that stress is stopping it from coming. Maybe get another test kit and do it again. Just so you know next time, the most fertile time of the month is the few days , (7 - 10 days), before your period is due. If you're going to be sexually active at such a young age, I would suggest going to see a doctor and getting some form of contraception and making sure you use it. I hope you're OK. :)
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reader, PixieGwen +, writes (17 July 2009):
 Whether or not you have your period - doesnt mean you are or are not pregnant(even if its spotty/lasts a day).if u took a test and it came out negative - I honestly wouldnt worry about it but If you still cant help but be worried, then take another test or two (how ever many u need to feel comfortable)- so you can be sure.
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