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*eliss289
writes:This question is for the men. I have been dating a man for almost 2 years now. He is a Christian man and I adore him. He has this website that he goes to often called ls2.com. When we first started dating every time I went to his house he had a new woman posted as his screen saver. I told him that it was not appriate he now just has cars and things. He respected me. However, he still goes online to this website and posts comments about woman. I have told him that this bothers me and I dont like it but he continues to do it. I created my own profile on there so I could see what he was doing and saying. The comments he has made are very perverse. Not to mention I seen a thread he created about me and my having small breasts. This to me is just over the top. He is 46 years old????????? Should I be concerned?? Is this normal "man" behavior??
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reader, wherestheinstructions?  +, writes (17 July 2009):
People are good or bad despite their choice of religion, not because of it, so that's irrelevant.
The fact is, he is doing something that he knows causes you offence, and continues to do so - he's not respecting you and he doesn't deserve you and you certainly don't deserve him!
Move on to a better man - there's billions out there.
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reader, anonymous, writes (17 July 2009): I don't think there is anything wrong in mentioning you, or talking about you if it is something nice, but if he is confiding in people over the internet or making remarks about your appearance to people, then that is over stepping the mark. He needs to stop this and give you some respect and privacy. If he can't do this then maybe you should question whether to stay with him or not.
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reader, anonymous, writes (17 July 2009): Hmm technically it is normal man behaviour to talk to his friends about his woman, it just that in this case it is being done in a different way, a forum and it's community. Well as tenki said, don't settle for less than you deserve.
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reader, anonymous, writes (17 July 2009): Hi!
Sorry to hear about these issues you are having with your boyfriend! But this man obviously does NOT respect you. To go on this website and talk about you or your body in anyway is not respectful. As far as being a Christian, shouldn't he be in control of his lust by the age he is. This is not a sign of a mature Christian man. Good luck and do not let him disrespect you!
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reader, Tenki +, writes (17 July 2009):
Honestly, I think he is crossing the line. There are men out there who will appreciate you and respect you, don't settle for less than you deserve.
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