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female
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26-29,
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writes:i net this guy on msn and he said i was hott!(this is the first boyfriend i have had)..... he asked me for sex and i said no.than he asked me out, i said yesi dont know how to talk to him and when i do i always sound like a dickhead, hes a lad , and he sometimes gets angry at me . and i cant smile at him on webcam coz im to shyhow do i talk to him?how do i know if he is real or not.?what should i do?he wont show a picture up so i dont know if he is a girl or wateva he is.i was on msn and i clicked on him and a girl came up what does that mean?should i dump him?i have so many other questions, please help me !!:(
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reader, uncle Frank  +, writes (17 July 2009):
 Honey,
I wish you were my daughter and near me so I could help you.
Do as 'Honeypie' suggests: Drop him.
Drop him as a hot potato.
I can assure you that ALL HE wants is to do is rape you and drop YOU! And possibly make you pregnant on the side, if he doesn't kill you when he has finished with your body.
DO NOT TRUST any one who wants sex even before he has seen you and DON'T give your address or phone. If you have talk to your parents if they are with you and care about you.
Unfortunately some parents give a computer to they kids so they are out of their hair.
Brake off.
Alert the police as they are looking for people like him
Brake off and tell us what you did with what we have told you.
Love
unkle Frank
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reader, anonymous, writes (17 July 2009): This is very dangerous and I doubt this guy is who he says he is! I agree with honeypie, you should watch a few episodes of To Catch a Predator, it will give you a more realistic idea of who may be on the other end.
Having said that, I realize that people telling you your hot and complimenting you is nice and there is a lot of that going on on the net, but just take the compliments and leave the rest alone. It IS dangerous.
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reader, bskitten  +, writes (17 July 2009):
I agree with Honeypie. I am 24 years old, but when I was your age the internet was just becoming popular and there weren't very many safety options for parents to monitor their kids. Looking back, I was a victim of all sorts of online predators and was so innocent and naive that I didn't take it seriously enough. The few men I met off the net were all older than me and total scumbags.
Respect yourself girlfriend. Shy girls are the easiest to take advantage of. You are so young, this guy is not who he says he is. Watch "To Catch a Predator", it is for real. There are monsters out there on the internet. Date boys from your school or who you meet in person. ANYONE asking for sex first is not worth your time. I promise. That kind of person will rape or molest you and you will spend a lifetime trying to get over it, I SPEAK FROM EXPERIENCE and would not lie to you. Rape is the worst thing that can happen to a girl. Please listen.
Please followup, please don't ever meet this person!! When adults flip out and make a big deal it is because they see things through different eyes that only come with time and experience, nobody is trying to be mean or control you, just looking out for you! Be careful online, okay?
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reader, Honeypie +, writes (17 July 2009):
 Yes dump him. If he can not show himself on a web cam he could be anyone. Like 50 year old pedophile.
Dump him as fast as you can then block him.
Don't talk to strangers on the net asking for sex. That is a very dangerous game to play. To many weirdo's out there.
Google the NBC show *to catch a predator* WATCH a few episodes ( can watch them online) It could be one of those kind of men contacting you. Do NOT give out private information. Like phone number, address or name.
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