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female
age
30-35,
anonymous
writes:I just don't know what to do anymore. I have been with my boyfriend for 6 months now, well 6 months to this exact day actually, and everything has gone really well (we've had our slight up's and down's but what couple haven't) but just recently he has come back from a biking holiday in France, and once he got back we was fine for the first couple of days and now he has started acting really strange. Take yesterday for example i texted him saying 'Are you still coming around tonight?' no reply so i thought maybe he'd left his phone at home whilst he was at work so i waited until a time when i knew he would be home and texted him again saying 'Yes or No' and he still didn't text back so i thought maybe he wasn't home yet... then i went onto his online social networking page and saw he had been home so i called him up and asked him why he hadn't been replyin to my text messages he said 'I Don't Know' i really didn't understand this i am not aware that i have done anything wrong to upset him so i asked him if i had and he said no and i said are you sure and he said yes stop asking me. I feel really sad and upset about all this because it is really starting to feel as though he doesn't want to be with me anymore and i don't understand what i have done wrong. What do you suggest i do?
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reader, RAINORFIRE  +, writes (17 July 2009):
 awwww i feel bad for you you seem like a sweet girl hmmm let me think, somehting may be going on in this guys life but i think its to mutch weight for you to try and carry tell him your going to give him his space and let him work out what ever is bothering him you feel ignored and alone and dont want to continue a relationship this way but would like to remain friends and that he knows where to find you if he needs a freind then dump him trust me its the only way because theres no excuse for him to treat you this way plus it doesnt seem like oyu can or he wants your help, theres hundreds of guys that would love for you to be there gf hes just not one of them good luck post your progress if you will
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