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writes:I need Help..I dont want to be criticized i just want help.I just had a miscarriage(i was 5 weeks preg) im 15 years old my boyfriend is almost 17.My parents went completely crazy on me even tho they knew i was not a virgin when i got with him. my father broke my phone and has banned me from leavin my house,seeing and talking to my boyfriend.We just lost our baby...WE need each other! my mother had disowned me and her husband(my step dad) told me he was goin to shoot me in my stomach.im living at my dads and he has nailed all the windows shut and hung wind chimes in front of the door so i cant leave if i tried. i cant even go to the bathroom with the door shut. i shall also add that i have a very suicidal past. My boyfriends mom is very supportive and loves me. Im not a bad kid i have good grades i have never been in trouble with the law and i just want to be with my Love.I want to runaway and be with him, but i dont know how to runaway and no get caught considerin that neither of us wilkl be able to get a new job because we will be missing..what should i do please help Reply to this Question
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reader, Ashleyjoe +, writes (17 July 2009):
Ashleyjoe is verified as being by the original poster of the question The onlt reason i have my computer..is because my boyfriend dont have one and they no i cant contact him that way.. my dad and his step dad are friends so we are both watched!i cant wait 3 years to see or talk to him.I live in Missouri so i cant get married untill with out parental consent until im 18.
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reader, Jason32477 +, writes (17 July 2009):
 I`m sorry to say but your probably stuck at the moment. Running away should not be an option.If you feel your problem is that bad I would suggest contacting Human/child resources, and explain your situation to them.Having to leave the door open to go potty?That doesn`t sound like it should be allowed especially staying with your father.Barred windows?Can we say fire hazard? Your best bet though is just to tough it out till your 18 and on that day move in with your bf.Thats less than 3 years away.In the mean time you might wanna look into getting emancipated,or check with different states marriage laws.You might be able to run off and get married at 16 depending on where your at / go.If you do leave make sure you have a legal recourse not to go back.
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reader, RAINORFIRE +, writes (17 July 2009):
 Im thinking this post is BS Why because you state your father broke your cellphone has locked you away from the world then why do you still have a computer with internet acess? IF its in fact true then i apologize and am sorry for your loss and pain, my advice to you is to find out about becoming an emancipated youth, you should check out what laws you can use to your advantage i dont advocate running away so try to stick to legal resources your family seems highly unreasonable maybe theres more to this then your saying, you should be in counseling atleast for the loss of your baby not shut up in the house, do you have any family members that can help you ie older brother sister aunt etc well good luck post your progress if you can
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reader, ilovebowsandcherries  +, writes (17 July 2009):
 first of all sorry to hear you lost your baby hun :( that's going to be tough.
i mean your mum and dad shouldn't be the way they are they can't stop you having a life! it's unfair! i mean of course you're going to need your boyfriend now more than ever and your parents should realise that what you're going through it tough for any girl at ANY age.
they should appreciate that you want to be with your boyfriend for you guys to have time to grieve!
and i am SICKENED! by what your step dad said about shooting you in the stomach! what a heartless man!
look i know you're young but they need to understand you've got to make mistakes for yourself to learn from them!
keeping you locked up and away and stop you seeing your boyfriend isn't going to do anything just make you want to rebel.
i mean if both your parents are being like this perhaps you should speak to a child line about there behavior i mean all parents react badly when there youngest is pregnant at ANY age or any of there children for that matter but to board up windows and set traps like windchimes to stop you leaving is absolutley OBSCENE!
your parents need to realise that you ARE growing up and you'll of course make mistakes in life but you will learn from them and you won't do that if they don't let you make them and figure them out for yourself!
you need to get help in here i mean they can't keep you locked away i understand you're a young girl but they can't keep you shut away forever.
you should think about talking to a childline see if they can help you out i mean it's not fair what they're doing and it's not normal at all!
i hope this helps hun!
best of luck !
message me if you want to talk further :)
x ilovebowsandcherries x
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