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41-50,
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writes:hi hope someone can give their opinion. A few months ago a guy joined the place i work, and we spoke a few times. over the last month things have changed slightly and a few of my friends have commented on how this guy acts around me and have said that its pretty obvious he fancies me. examples of behaviour and things he has said are he told a colleague of mine while i was there that he finds it hard to concentrate and i make his life hard as i am always happy and smiling and he likes my smile. in the meantime i was trying not to be embarrassed. he has said this a few times since to dofferent people also. he talks to me it seems more than other people and we tease and laugh together quite a lot, and when he looks at me he always smiles and doesnt give in until i respond with the same. apparantly he follows me wherever i am with his eyes and when i am concentrating on written work he frequently glances up in time to avoid me catching him. i have tried to rationalise it by saying that he is just being friendly and when he looks up he is also thinking, but no one seems to take that one. i do like him but there is no way that i would be confident enough to do or say anything about it. what do you think? Reply to this Question
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reader, misswalston  +, writes (1 July 2009):
 Girl, he likes you and apparently you like him too. Somebody needs to make the first move and it looks like it will have to be you..........Go for it!!!!!!!!!!Don't say that you aren't confident enough. If you say that, then you claim it so don't claim that. Be positive and say that you are confident. Ask him to go out to lunch and go from there........good luck!!!!!!
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reader, Starlights +, writes (1 July 2009):
 why dont u just bite the bullet and put urself out of your misery? send him a casual email and ask him if he wants to meet up for drinks (either for lunch or after work)
become friends then see what develops.
good luck!!!
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