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female
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36-40,
*HY ME 86
writes: me and my husband are getting a divorce. we have been married for 2 years. he says he done with me and he has found him an older much older woman than him that he is in love with he says. he tells me not to txt him anymore unless its about our 12 month old son. i was talkin to him the other day and i told him i had found me someone but we were not gettin seroius till the divorce was final. then my husband started askin all kinds of questions like who is he, how old is the friend. how many kids does he have. and he even asked if me and my guy freind was having sex. i told him that he didnt care about me anymore so stop askin me these questions. if he really dont love me anymore why is he askin me all these question when he was the one that ended our marriage with another woman. Does this mean he still has feelings for me or am I putting words in his mouth?
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reader, anonymous, writes (2 July 2009): please do not read anything to his questions. just like how i am sure you wanted to know everything about your hb's lover, he is also naturally curious. please do not waste any more energy trying to look for signs that you hb is still interested. if he was he would be with you , not his lover.
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reader, Renee okc +, writes (1 July 2009):
It sounds to me like he isnt to sure of his decision You shouldn't waist anymore of your time on a man that says he doesnt want you this is a classic case of he doesn't want you but he doesnt want you to be with another man either. Let him go ahead with his older lady and only call him about your son give him what he wants you are holding on to the relationship you use to have he has said some hurtful things to you. Why are you starting your new relationship til after your divorced you go ahead and raise a healthy baby and enjoy your life you are to young to be concerned with a jerk like him because in the end he will be the one that is miserable.
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