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anonymous
writes:Hey!!Ok.I kind of chased my boyfriend away unintentionarily!I was snooping on his facebook, so i created a false account and i could see his flirting with other girls.I got involved with a guy, but it didnt lead to anything, it was something stupid and he forgave me, but started doubting me, so he checked my phone now and then, or my facebook.He has cheated on me, and girls who have a crush on him, or part of his past still flirt with him coz they r friends on facebook.I deleted this alias account and decided to give this a chance but i still had access to another alias i created for a friend and two of the girls i was snooping on coz of him were there.So, one time, one of this gals asks my boyfriend who this alias is coz apparently they share a surname and she thot it was his sister. He asked me why i hadnt stopped(since i'd confessed my previous facebook alias)i said it was my friend's acc but he didnt believe me coz he thot i'd added that gal that day tho she'd been there for like a month.He called, to tell me to forget any progress we'd made and he still hasnt talked to me, it's been like a week.I got mad when he told this gal that it was me who created the fake account, while that was true i created it, it was not to serve me but my friend. I got more mad coz he told this gal my dirty lil secret, and he's supposed to be my boyfriend! The gal is a bitch and big gossip she must have told an army by now.I'd like you to tell me if i should pursue this guy or let it go coz as for now he doesnt seem interested and he just asked some gal out for a date :-(
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reader, anonymous, writes (1 July 2009): This is verified as being by the original poster of the questionTyping error!
The gal that this alias was his sister coz of the shared surname.
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When i confessed about my alias account, i also told him bout this one for my friend and he checked it and thot it was clever. But now he's pretending to be shocked that it's there, like he didnt kno.
Oh!
He told her coz she asked him and he felt obliged to tell her the truth!! And it's not like they r tight friends or somethin, just a gal from class.
Ok.
Enough of ranting but am mad, y tell her?
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