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writes:Hiya I'm 17 and I'm engaged to a 19 year old and we have been together with a year and a half with a beautiful seven month old daughter. Everything was absolutely perfect we moved in together but when I was 9 months pregnant he started going out a lot more than he used too. I found out the day before I went in to labour that he had been txting and meeting up with another girl Becky. He denied it for hours even though she had txt me telling me he was saying that we weren't together and we were only living together because of our baby and he was meeting up and hitting on her. She got my number after I found it on his phone and rang her leaving her a message. He then walked out and didn't come back until the morning only because I was in labour. Anyway too the point I've been trying to get over it since then but I still feel terrible. He's got more and more lazy and selfish. I think he's pushing me away HELP
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reader, birchybabe15 +, writes (2 July 2009):
birchybabe15 is verified as being by the original poster of the question He hardly goes out anymore though and when he does its with people I can trust. Do you think there's no way I could make things work because I really do love him and I don't want Cara to blame me when she's older and I know she will because I felt like that with my mum. I just want him to be more loving towards me and Cara. Its like he's lost his spark.
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reader, anonymous, writes (2 July 2009): He's more than pushing you away. If he's not already cheating on you (sounds like he is) he will. A lot of times in this kind of situation (especially since you are so young) the guy will trapped because there is a baby involved and that will be the only reason he will stick around. This guy isn't even doing that! I think this guy is gone. Sorry. He does sound like he's being a total sleaze bucket. It's disgusting he would do that to you when you have kids.
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reader, birchybabe15 +, writes (1 July 2009):
birchybabe15 is verified as being by the original poster of the questionI did not trap him! It was one drunken night and he was the one who wanted to keep the baby! I love my daughter very very much but I did want to go to university before hand. I don't feel that I should just up and leave him because he is an amazing dad and I do really love him I'm just findin it hard to cope. I feel like a single mother with two kids. I just wanted some advice on how to make this work.
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reader, anonymous, writes (1 July 2009): what a nice way to end ur teenage wood.u dnt trap a man by having a baby.clearly u man is nt matured he needs to do more growing up..dis is jst the start hes goin 2do worse.n ther wil b nothing u can do.so jst walk away its nt worth ur pain
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