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female
age
41-50,
*implemaniac
writes:There is a guy who I've known for a while and he has a girlfriend that he's been dating for six months but he flirts with me all the time and talks about wanting to have sex with me. Should I tell him I want something serious or is he just using me?
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reader, Your friend  +, writes (2 July 2009):
 He is a heavy duty flirter having some very cheeky fun and seeing how far he can push it, a bit silly but it doesn't necessarily mean he wants to sleep with you.
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reader, AngellicaWaters +, writes (2 July 2009):
 If you are looking for something serious, you have to act more like you are looking for that. By flirting with someone who is taken, your actions are not matching up with what you want and any guy who sees that won't get serious with you.
This guy is definitely not interested in anything serious. No one who is willing to cheat is serious about someone else, what he is serious about is his own desires and fulfilling them in any way possible.
You deserve better! Make a man earn your flirtations and affection and don't even bother talking to someone with a girlfriend, wife, etc. If you continue to do so, it's always going to be disappointing for you.
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reader, QuirkLady +, writes (2 July 2009):
 Yes, he is using you. He's blatantly disrespecting both his relationship and you. Frankly you should have told him to stop that mess the first time. Honorable, nice guys do not try to cheat on their girlfriends. Why would you want something serious with this guy when the odds are he will do the same to you? Why would you want to date a guy with a girlfriend, anyway?
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reader, mandyx99 +, writes (1 July 2009):
 i know what your going through that has happened to me too.
i honestly think hes using you
now let me ask you this. do YOU like him? hes probably goin for you because his gf doesnt give him much attention in a sexual way i mean. i may be wrong though. and has he ever talked about him breaking up with his gf? if not hes using you best of luck
XX AMANDA XX
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